How difficult is it to be a new mom and finishing a medical school degree?
I had aimed on being a doctor in pathology and was just three class away from my MCAT and my reviews and I just learned that I am pregant and due next year. I want to continue school but everyone tells me that Im not going to be able to finish my goals now and I should just settle and be a PA. I want to have a great life and raise my child well and make sure we have a secure future, but im confused.
Other - Education - 5 Answers - 2009-11-05 22:22:27
Best Answer
Never take your eyes off the prize. Don't let anybody dissuade you from pursuing your goal. You can do it--others have. Medical school isn't easy and having a young child doesn't make it any easier, but it doesn't make it that much harder, either. Things have a way of working out, so don't give up before you even start.
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Answer 1
What is stopping you from reaching your goals? You will never know unless you try. Continue your education for as long as you can, accept any assistance offered, and you just might make it. If you don't go for it you will surely never make it. Good luck to you
2009-11-05 22:34:41
Answer 2
Why not consider abortion? If the "daddy" ain't around, and you have such high hopes, it's an option. Don't settle, as abortion is the option you should choose.
2009-11-05 22:44:43
Answer 3
my mom did it, and i turned out fine ;)
2009-11-06 05:24:34
Answer 4
It will be incredibly difficult to study and have a newborn. I don't think you should have to give up your whole life because of one mistake, which you will most likely have to. This foetus inside you is but a cluster of cells. It can't think, it doesn't even know it exists at all. This isn't an easy decision, in fact its near impossible. If I was you, I would have an abortion. If you stop this now, you can have another child later and have every resource in existence for them because you will have a solid career. However that is just what I would do, you might be different to me. Your university will have counselors who can help you better. Good Luck.
2009-11-06 11:32:25